On September 20, 2008 as a part of Five Year celebrations, we group of about 10 SAIC India employees visited Friends in need society, an old age home in Bangalore. It was perhaps first time for many of us were visiting an old age home. The moment we entered inside the home we all got wrapped in the tranquility surrounding the home. Every body was inside. Soon, we met a lady – care taker of the home, she led us to a big hall where we were made to sit. Next to our room, we saw some 8-10 people all old aged singing carols to the tunes of a piano.
After few minutes some 30-35 men and women came there. The care taker lady introduced us to them. There eyes were fixed on us – may be they were expecting something that they didn’t have from their loved ones. We had planned to entertain them by playing games, songs and dancing as well. We were carrying cakes and chips with us. We started with a song. Meanwhile, we distributed cakes and chips to them and started hi hello. Soon, little talk took the shape of one way flow of grieves or put it in other words they begin to share their sufferings with us. Some even went on sharing their experiences of youth time.
Continuing our plan, some guys presented a nice dance which was applauded by all. Soon, they started calling us and made us to relish the food items along with them. They asked questions like where do you come from? Which company do you belong to? Are you married? Suggestions started pouring in like “Never leave your parents”, “Take care of them”. To make it both way we also started asking them some questions like which place do you belong to? What is your age? How come you are here? Are you having any near and dear ones and do they come to meet you? Their replies made us to melt down. I remember asking a lady – How many boy friends you are having? and reply came prompt – My husband has expired. It was all emotional but fun at the same time as our motive was to share some quality time with them which we did. We had some photographs and finally the time came to say Good Bye to them but not before distributing cakes and chips to all those who couldn’t make it to that hall.
And finally we left the home with a sordid image of society in our mind. So, who is this society it’s me and we all. Let’s be a change to see the change. Remember, we all inextricably linked to our society. As are we so is our society and so are you – The reader.



